Saturday, May 01, 2010

Quotation

To love is not a passive thing, To love is active

Voice. When I love I do something. I function, I give.

I do not love in order that I may be loved back again,

But for the creative joy of loving. And every time

I do so love I am feed, at least a little by the outgoing of love,

from enslavement to that most intolerable master ... Myself.

 

~ Bernard Iddings Bell


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Friday, April 23, 2010

Where Our Saying Come From. A Little History!

There is an old Hotel/Pub in Marble Arch, London , which used to have
a gallows adjacent to it. Prisoners were taken to the gallows, (after
a fair trial of course) to be hung.
The horse drawn dray, carting the prisoner, was accompanied by an
armed guard, who would stop the dray outside the pub and ask the
prisoner if he would like ''ONE LAST DRINK''.
If he said YES, it was referred to as “ONE FOR THE ROAD”
If he declined, that prisoner was “ON THE WAGON”

So there you go. More bleeding history


They used to use urine to tan animal skins, so families used to all
pee in a pot & then once a day it was taken & sold to the tannery. If
you had to do this to survive you were, "Piss Poor", but worse than
that, were the really poor folk, who couldn’t even afford to buy a
pot, they "Didn’t have a pot to Piss in" & were the lowest of the low.


The next time you are washing your hands and complain, because the
water temperature isn't just how you like it, think about how things
used to be.

Here are some facts about the 1500’s:

Most people got married in June, because they took their yearly bath
in May and they still smelled pretty good by June. However, since they
were starting to smell, brides carried a bouquet of flowers, to hide
the body odour.
Hence the custom today, of carrying a bouquet when getting married.

Baths consisted of a big tub filled with hot water. The man of the
house had the privilege of the nice clean water, then all the other
sons and men, then the women and finally the children. Last of all the
babies. By then the water was so dirty you could actually lose someone
in it. Hence the saying, "Don't throw the baby out with the Bath
water!"


Houses had thatched roofs, thick straw piled high, with no wood
underneath. It was the only place for animals to get warm, so all the
cats and other small animals (mice, bugs) lived in the roof. When it
rained it became slippery and sometimes the animals would slip and
fall off the roof. Hence the saying "It's raining cats and dogs."


There was nothing to stop things from falling into the house. This
posed a real problem in the bedroom, where bugs and other droppings
could mess up your nice clean bed. Hence, a bed with big posts and a
sheet hung over the top, afforded some protection. That's how canopy
beds came into existence.


The floor was dirt. Only the wealthy had something other than dirt.
Hence the saying, "Dirt Poor." The wealthy had slate floors, that
would get slippery in the winter when wet, so they spread thresh
(straw) on floor to help keep their footing.
As the winter wore on, they added more thresh, until, when you opened
the door, it would all start slipping outside. A piece of wood was
placed in the entrance-way. Hence: a thresh hold.. (Getting quite an
education, aren't you?)

In those old days, they cooked in the kitchen with a big kettle, that
always hung over the fire. Every day, they lit the fire and added
things to the pot. They ate mostly vegetables and did not get much
meat. They would eat the stew for dinner, leaving leftovers in the pot
to get cold overnight, then start over the next day. Sometimes stew
had food in it that had been there for quite a while. Hence the rhyme:
''Peas porridge hot, peas porridge cold, peas porridge in the pot,
nine days old''.


Sometimes they could obtain pork, which made them feel quite special.
When visitors came over, they would hang up their bacon, to show off.
It was a sign of wealth that a man could, "Bring home the Bacon." They
would cut off a little, to share with guests and would all sit around
talking and ''Chew the fat''.


Those with money had plates made of pewter. Food with high acid
content caused some of the lead to leach onto the food, causing lead
poisoning & death. This happened most often with tomatoes, so for the
next 400 years or so, tomatoes were considered poisonous.


Bread was divided, according to status.. Workers got the burnt bottom
of the loaf, the family got the middle, and guests got the top, or
''The Upper Crust''.

Lead cups were used to drink ale or whisky. The combination, would
sometimes knock the imbibers out for a couple of days. Someone walking
along the road, would take them for dead and prepare them for burial.
They were laid out on the kitchen table for a couple of days and the
family would gather around and eat and drink and wait and see if they
would wake up. Hence the custom of ''Holding a Wake''.

England is old and small and the local folks started running out of
places to bury people. So, they would dig up coffins and would take
the bones to a bone-house and reuse the grave.. When reopening these
coffins, 1 out of 25 coffins were found to have scratch marks on the
inside and they realized they had been burying people alive. So they
would tie a string on the wrist of the corpse, thread it through the
coffin and up through the ground and tie it to a bell.
Someone would have to sit out in the graveyard all night, (the
graveyard shift) to listen for the bell; thus, someone could be,
''Saved by the Bell '' or was considered a ''Dead Ringer''
And that's the truth.

Now, whoever said History was boring ! ! !

So . . . get out there and educate someone!
Share these facts with a friend, like I just did! ! !

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Thursday, April 22, 2010

Define Your Personal Brand With Simple Questions.

This is a great concept to work on.

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The gist of blogger Ron Ashkenas‘ piece is to think of yourself as a unique brand, and determine what your unique value is over the other brands, uh, co-workers, with whom you toil.

   “To crystallize your personal brand,” he writes, “ask yourself what you want to be known for — what differentiates you from everyone else who might have a similar background or set of experiences? In other words, what skills, abilities, knowledge and attitudes do you have (or are developing) that will make people want to work with, follow or “friend” you — online or off? What value can you create for others as a friend, blogger, colleague, teammate, boss or subordinate? And what will make you satisfied and fulfilled that you are indeed making a contribution?”



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Tuesday, April 20, 2010

An Interesting Response...

Okay had to share this here.

Someone posted a question on a site asking how they could market their
new business.
Here's one reply (Names Omitted)


This is one interesting approach to Marketing - and gaining rapport!

------begin------

Tracy, Tracy, Tracy

I would like to help you in a special way, from an African American
perspective.

First, find a niche market - my suggestion would be "Ugly Women".
Every market has them and I'm sure you have them all around you;
church, work, businesses, etc.

Second, I hope you have business cards to hand out. When you see an
ugly women, I mean UUUUUgly! Do her a favor and your business, hand
her your business card and tell her that your business is different
than any other. Yes, the word is Differentiation.

Don't follow what every one else is doing. Utilize your skills in
helping your market most ugliest women and help them to become less
ugly. Of course, you have stiff competition - Mary Kay, Avon, and so
on and on.

Thirdly, Don't use social media outlets, don't have a website, and
don't waist your money on newspaper ads. Fourth, best strategy, Viral
Marketing.

When these ugly women become less of a strain on the eyes of the
market that you serve people will ask, "What happen to this ugly
women?" "She's more tolerable to look at from last week, now that's
amazing!".

Which bring me to my last strategy.

Fifth, for every ugly women that you serve, tell them to bring
everyone that they now who is similar in beaugly. It wouldn't hurt to
have t-shirt made with your company name on it to give to each
customer that you have helped. Girl friend, you can do this and by the
power of makeup I send you forth to dominate the market and serve
every ugly women that you meet.

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Monday, April 19, 2010

On Imperfection and Patience

"Have patience with all things,
but chiefly have patience with yourself.
Do not lose courage in considering
your own imperfections but instantly
set about remedying them - every day
begin the task anew."

- Saint Francis de Sales

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Saturday, April 17, 2010

Cultivated Play: Farmville

Farmville and it's allure on Facebook have always been a mystery to me.
Here's one thought on it.

Lindy

Cultivated Play: Farmville

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[This essay was given as a talk at SUNY Buffalo, 28 January 2010, the day after Howard Zinn’s death. I have left the text unaltered, to better reflect the spirit of the talk.]

I’m worried that students will take their obedient place in society and look to become successful cogs in the wheel - let the wheel spin them around as it wants without taking a look at what they’re doing.
                                                      — Howard Zinn


...

The secret to Farmville’s popularity is neither gameplay nor aesthetics. Farmville is popular because in entangles users in a web of social obligations. When users log into Facebook, they are reminded that their neighbors have sent them gifts, posted bonuses on their walls, and helped with each others’ farms. In turn, they are obligated to return the courtesies. As the French sociologist Marcel Mauss tells us, gifts are never free: they bind the giver and receiver in a loop of reciprocity. It is rude to refuse a gift, and ruder still to not return the kindness.[11] We play Farmville, then, because we are trying to be good to one another. We play Farmville because we are polite, cultivated people.

...

The most important thing to recognize here is that, whether we like it or not, seventy-three million people are playing Farmville: a boring, repetitive, and potentially dangerous activity that barely qualifies as a game. Seventy-three million people are obligated to a company that holds no reciprocal ethical obligation toward those people.

...

We are obligated to examine what we are doing, whether we are updating our Facebook status or playing Call of Duty, because the results of those actions will ultimately be our burden, for better or for worse. We must learn above all to distinguish between the better and the worse. Citizens must educate themselves in the use of sociable applications, such as Wikipedia, Skype, and Facebook, and learn how they can better use them to forward their best interests. And we must learn to differentiate sociable applications from sociopathic applications: applications that use people’s sociability to control those people, and to satisfy their owners’ needs.

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Sunday, April 11, 2010

Quotation

I am done with great things and big plans, great intuitions and big success. I am for those tiny, invisible loving human forces that work from individual to individual, creeping through the crannies of the world like so many rootlets, or like the capillary oozing of water, which, if given time, will rend the hardest monuments of pride.  

~ William James

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Friday, April 09, 2010

Monday, April 05, 2010

Gary Vaynerchuk Quotes SXSW 2010

From Gist Blog

Some great lines here that ring true for me.

Excerpt

Gary Vaynerchuk’s talk at the recent SXSWi conference. Enjoy.

“Every person in this room… you’re going to be in the customer service business. And that’s what I’m obsessed with.”

“Too many businesses are trying to act like a 19 yr old guy. Just trying to close the deal”

“Advertising is over. We have to have a “thank you economy”

“We are completely underestimating the value of thank you and you’re welcome”

“People are not buying content” because so much content is available for free, but “experience is extremely valuable.”

“The people who are giving customer service are winning, and the ones who aren’t are losing.”

“The reason we love our parents is because they loved us first. Companies need to do the same thing. They need to start caring”

“Don’t take it for granted. Life is so good, I’m scared. I’m thankful.”

“Be driven by gratitude.”

“There is nobody more obsessed with me then hanging out with 90yr. old people. They never say I wish I made more money.”

“You can’t scale caring, it’s not authentic.”

“Care about your users/customers 1st before you sell them on anything. Close slower. Soft sell.”

“Surround yourself with awesome people. Don’t take consumers/employees for granted.”

“Abolish the notion that social media will help your biz blow up over night – building successful biz takes patience & time”

“Have patience. Google Analytics is not a real indicator of how good you are. Stay authentic, don’t panic.”

“Be authentic everyday!”

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Sunday, April 04, 2010

On The Dalai Lama, Leonard Cohen and Travelling Within

http://www.oregonlive.com/books/index.ssf/2010/04/pico_iyer_talks_about_the_dala.html

Pico Iyer talks about the Dalai Lama, Leonard Cohen and the virtues of traveling within yourself

By Jeff Baker, The Oregonian

April 04, 2010, 6:37PM
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Q: How old is he? (Dalai Lama)

A: 75 this year, in July. I think his health is pretty good. His stamina is amazing. Whenever he comes to Japan I travel with him for eight or nine days and I'm exhausted just from watching him go through his schedule and I'm 25 years younger than he. It goes back to your first question: I think part of the reason why his stamina is so amazing is he spends his first four hours every day in meditation. I think seeing people like him or Leonard Cohen, who is doing three-hour concerts at the age of 74 and 75, has if nothing else shown me that it's only by composing yourself and sitting still for a long, long time that you can really bring the focus and clarity to guide you when you start moving. Those two are good examples of that.

Q: I was going to wait to ask you about Leonard Cohen but he keeps popping up.

A: He does keep popping in.

Q: Start from the beginning: What's your connection to him?

A: Like many people, maybe you, I was a devotee growing up. I remember when I was 17 I went to India, really for the first time, for three months and all I had was an acoustic guitar, a very worn copy of his first album, and the dream of becoming the Indian Leonard Cohen. I would traipse along with long hair, English boarding school, and every time I'd see a beautiful Mogol garden I'd sit down and strum something horrible and try to create some moon/June terrible verse to replicate him. I was a fan for a long, long time.

Then in 1995, to my delight, a magazine asked me to spend some time with him in his Zen temple where he'd gone on retreat because I had written a book about Japan and Zen. Since then, because he's such an open, generous and humble man, as his monk-ly robes would suggest, disarmingly so. It's almost shocking when people meet him how much he's left Leonard Cohen the celebrity behind. He presents himself as somebody who just wants to look after you and tend to you anonymously. He was really nice enough to keep up the connection.

I reviewed his album in 2001, "Ten New Songs," and I think he liked that piece. He often asked me to write, I guess the text for his Essential Leonard Cohen album and then something about his next album and the text for his recent concert program and the bio for his Web site. I think it's mostly because maybe two reasons. One is he's such a literary person at heart. As you know, he began his life as a poet and he's always hungering for a literary appreciation for his work, not just the typical music critic response. And also he doesn't know so many people who spend a lot of time in a monastery and that seems to make a connection whereby I could understand him in a certain way that made sense to him. Of course he's ... like any charismatic person who's been in the public eye for 40 years but more than most he exerts such a fascination for people. He, like the Dalai Lama in a different way, has set up such an elaborate screen of myths and projections. When people hear the words Leonard Cohen they think of all kinds of things but probably not of the monk or the poet. Maybe he was glad to have someone respond to that.

Q: I was disappointed he didn't come here. Did you travel with him?

A: I didn't but I saw a couple of the concerts.

Q: I heard they were both artistic triumphs and rapturously received.

A: Rapturous. I've never seen anything like it. I went to see the first concerts in Toronto, which were the start of the official tour, and for Leonard Cohen to return to a big arena in Canada is like the Pope to show up in St. Peter's square or whatever it's called. He only had to come out onstage and the whole place was up, and then regularly after every song. It was very touching. I've never seen such an intimate connection between an audience and a star onstage. I think that's because his skill at demystifying himself and creating that air of intimacy, even in a big arena. I thought a lot about what it is that holds people so about his work and I think there is a pitiless, unsparing honesty that very few writers in any form can conjure up. I more and more think that he is one of the enduring poets of English literature. I would put him right next to Emily Dickinson.

Q: Do you think that his performing aged well? He is a spare arranger and his voice is not considered classically beautiful and maybe sounds better now than it did when he was younger.

A: That's a very interesting point and makes a lot of sense to me. I think it's also that he's sitting apart from the time and that he's singing to the tune of his own drummer. I think what people respond to is a composure and a wisdom to his delivery that we're not accustomed to seeing even among his contemporaries like Bob Dylan. I think they feel that he's not trying to keep up with the moment or traffic in the latest MTV styles or playing elaborate games of that kind.

He's presenting himself almost as a monk in prayer on the stage and that cuts through some of the stuff I was saying we're so tired of. We feel more and more manipulated by image and more hostage to the moment and he's not about moment and not about image. And yes his voice, which was always a little uncertain, is now more hauntingly uncertain. When I play it in Japan my Japanese wife runs out of the room holding her ears. She says 'this is just Buddhist chanting. This is like going to a Zen temple.' (laughs) And she's right. That has a certain appeal now.

The arc of his career is so interesting. He began as the bright troubadour romantic and then in the 70s his songs were all about self-hatred and being messed up and lost and then he went into the Zen temple and came out with these very worldly songs, "First We'll Take Manhattan," almost like a prophet returning to the mountaintop. I do feel, and maybe it's just my prejudice, that those years as a monk prepared him for being able to come out in the world and an extraordinary collected energy that almost no other musician can command. One reason the concerts were so successful was his transparent humility. We're not used to a performer thanking the audience over and over and not trying to hog the spotlight.

Q: As far as putting him in the pantheon of poets, I've read comments from him that writing is a very painstaking process for him and he wants to make sure to get it right.

A: Yes, exactly. I remember when I was staying with him in the Zen temple in this little rickety cabin on the mountainside and he had all these notebooks up there and he pointed and said those six notebooks are one song. For something like "Halleluyah" he wrote 80 verses and recorded four verses and he sometimes sings a version with two different ones so he's employed six out of the 80. I think that perfectionism, that absolute meticulousness that you see in his dress and his presentation of himself, means that he'll continue to make minor changes in a song even after it's recorded.

He approaches life as a poet and I think he's almost unique in the rock and roll domain in that there are many people like Joni Mitchell and Bob Dylan and subsequent ones who have a great gift for poetry but are musicians first. I see Cohen as being very similar to Thomas Merton. I was just up at the monastery reading Merton and it's word for word similar but even more Emily Dickinson with those riddled quatrains where each word is so uncanny but so perfectly put together in this little jewel box that can explode in your hand. It's a very rare thing even in poetry because not much mainstream poetry is rhymed and observes so specific a rhythm as his.

Q: The current Bob Dylan is revealing himself to be what he was when he was 20, a troubadour and a collector and interpreter of old folk songs. He'll reinterpret himself differently every time where Cohen will make sure to get it exactly right.

A: Yes, and invested with the changes himself. When he sings "Suzanne" it's note for note the same as in 1967 but what you're hearing is a 75-year-old man singing a 40-year-old song of love so it instantly has a different coloration. But you're right, he's not playing games with it, he's counting on the years to speak through it. I think Dylan is the great minstrel of people when they're young and walking down the road and they don't know what's beyond the next mountain and the excitement of exploration and leaving everything behind and Cohen is about what's on the other side of the mountain. He's the only person I know in the contemporary music world who's speaking for the wisdom of the 75-year-old rather the questing nature of the 20-year-old.

I was listening to some early Dylan recently from the Scorsese documentary "No Direction Home" and there's some early songs when Dylan was 19 and I suddenly got it and I realized when he was 19 he sounds like he's 1,000 years old and he sounds like a prophet who's come down from the mountain or forest and it's really uncanny to me now. In some ways he's gotten younger and younger as the years have gone on whereas I think Cohen is more about how we've watched him deepen and mature and go from this person singing about division and confusion to this sage who's beyond it all.


-- Jeff Baker

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Friday, April 02, 2010

Laurie Anderson Bright Red

Laurie Anderson The Ugly one with the Jewels

In 1974, I went to Mexico to visit my brother who
was working as an anthropologist with Tsutsil
Indians, the last surviving Mayan tribe. And the
Tsutsil speak a lovely birdlike language and are
quite tiny physically; I towered over them.
Mostly, I spent my days following the women around
since my brother wasn't really allowed to do
this. We got up at 3am and began to separate the
corn into three colors. And we boiled it, ran to
the mill and back, and finally started to make the
tortillas. Now all the other women's tortillas
were 360°, perfectly toasted, perfectly round;
and after a lot of practice mine were still
lobe-sided and charred. And when they thought I
wasn't looking they threw them to the dogs.
After breakfast we spent the rest of the day down
at the river watching the goats and braiding and
unbraiding each other's hair. So usually there
wasn't that much to report. One day the women
decided to braid my hair Tsutsil-style. After they
did this I saw my reflection in a puddle. I looked
ridiculous but they said, "Before we did this
you were ugly, but now maybe you will find a
husband."

I lived within in a yurt, a thatched structure
shaped like a cob cake. And there's a central
fireplace ringed by sleeping shelves sort of like
a dry beaver down. Now my Tsutsil name was Lausha,
which loosely translated means "the ugly one
with the jewels". Now ugly, OK, I was awfully
tall by local standards. But what did they mean by
the jewels? I didn't find out what this meant
until one night, when I was taking my contact
lenses out, and since I'd lost the case I was
carefully placing them on the sleeping shelf;
suddenly I noticed that everyone was staring at me
and I realized that none of the Tsutsil had ever
seen glasses, much less contacts, and that these
were the jewels, the transparent, perfectly round,
jewels that I carefully hid on the shelf at night
and then put for safekeeping into my eyes every
morning.

So I may have been ugly but so what? I had the
jewels.

Full fathom thy father lies Of his bones are coral
made Those are pearls that were his eyes Nothing
of him that doth fade But that suffers a sea
change Into something rich and strange And I alone
am left to tell the tale Call me Ishmael
Lyrics: The Ugly one with the Jewels, Laurie Anderson [end]

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Thursday, April 01, 2010

TWO WOLVES

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.

He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all. 

"One is Evil - It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

"The other is Good - It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"

The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

5 topics inflight magazine editors love:

I thought this list looked interesting.
I wonder what other publications and specialty
services have hot lists like this...

Do you know some?

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5 topics inflight magazine editors love:

--Management and leadership tips from authors,
speakers and consultants.

--Calendar listings for things like museum exhibits,
festivals and sporting events.

--"Best kept secrets" in a community or region, from
restaurants to quaint shopping areas--but only in
the city or region the airline serves.

--Techie gadgets and new products for business people
or travelers, for the New Products section.

--Profiles of successful local authors, artists and
community leaders--but only those who live or work
in the region an airline serves.



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Saturday, March 27, 2010

An Unusual Bookstore

I loved this quotation from the video

"If a child knows 8 nursery rhymes by the time they are 4 years old
they will be an excellent reader by the time they are 8 years old"


Thanks to Jim Owens of Agnes Books for sharing this

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Friday, March 19, 2010

Why Do Pirates Wear Eye Patches?

I harvested this snippet from an email today...

"I read somewhere that pirates wear eye patches not because they lost
or injured an eye in a fight. But because they’re constantly going
above and below deck.
The patch keeps one eye adjusted to the dark. So when they go below
deck, they can simply switch the patch to the other eye or flip it up
and they don’t have to wait for their pupils to adjust. They can see
in the dark right away."




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Monday, March 15, 2010

Reputation: Quotation

This seems to apply so well to life online...

Reputation

“The reputation of a man is like his shadow:
it sometimes follows and sometimes precedes him,
it is sometimes longer and sometimes shorter than his natural size”

~ French Proverb



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Friday, February 19, 2010

That's When You've Started...

"He always said that just when you want to give up,and you've put break-back hours into a song, that's when you should consider the work having commenced. That's when you should consider your job having actually started," he said. "My father said it's in that exhaustion and sense of hopelessness on the doorstep of defeat that -- if you can actually pass that threshold -- you get to the good stuff.

"To me, that demonstrates a tenacity, a belief in self, a dedication and a discipline that is awe-inspiring," he said, "and that has produced some of the most beautiful songs and poems ever written."


~ Adam Cohen on father Leonard Cohen.






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Saturday, February 06, 2010

Emotional Weather Report

Well we are talking about late night and early morning low clouds
With a chance of fog, chance of showers into the afternoon
With variable high cloudiness and gusty winds
Gusty winds at times around the corner of sunset and Alvarado
Yeah I know things are tough all over

— Tom Waits “Emotional Weather Report”


Scientific version here

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Monday, February 01, 2010

A Reunion Tale

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN GUILTY OF LOOKING AT OTHERS YOUR OWN AGE AND THINKING, SURELY I CAN'T LOOK THAT OLD.
WELL . . . YOU'LL LOVE THIS ONE.

MY NAME IS ALICE , AND I WAS SITTING IN THE WAITING ROOM FOR MY FIRST APPOINTMENT WITH A NEW DENTIST.

I NOTICED HIS DDS DIPLOMA ON THE WALL, WHICH BORE HIS FULL NAME. SUDDENLY, I REMEMBERED A TALL,HANDSOME, DARK-HAIRED BOY WITH THE SAME NAME HAD BEEN IN MY HIGH SCHOOL CLASS SOME 30-ODD YEARS AGO.

COULD HE BE THE SAME GUY THAT I HAD A SECRET CRUSH ON, WAY BACK THEN?

UPON SEEING HIM, HOWEVER, I QUICKLY DISCARDED ANY SUCH THOUGHT.

THIS BALDING, GRAY-HAIRED MAN WITH THE DEEPLY LINED FACE WAS WAY TOO OLD TO HAVE BEEN MY CLASSMATE.

AFTER HE EXAMINED MY TEETH, I ASKED HIM IF HE HAD ATTENDED MORGAN PARK HIGH SCHOOL.

"YES. YES, I DID. I'M A MUSTANG," HE GLEAMED WITH PRIDE.

"WHEN DID YOU GRADUATE?" I ASKED.

HE ANSWERED, "IN 1970. WHY DO YOU ASK?"
 
"YOU WERE IN MY CLASS!", I EXCLAIMED.

HE LOOKED AT ME CLOSELY.

THEN, THAT UGLY,

OLD,

BALD,

WRINKLED FACED,

FAT-ASSED,

GRAY-HAIRED,

MAN

ASKED,

"WHAT DID YOU TEACH???

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Sunday, January 24, 2010

Geeky Hobbies

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Every once in a while it comes around the question:
What to buy for a complete geek.

Maybe some ideas here will help!


Now the bell ringing I hadn't thought of, I freely admit.


Alt Text: Obscure Hobbies For Obsessive Geeks.


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Saturday, January 16, 2010

Basic Business Numbers

I liked this comment on a blog about Quality being neglected as
Quantity gets the kudos in business.

Here's the link to the discussion.

But here's the comment, which is so nicely drawn as to stand alone.

"Many companies lack basic numbers that can be drilled down to action points.
Too many parasites jump on information available without contributing to make
the available information and it's process robust.

The data crunchers are mainly in back offices where the parasites don't
 bother to look into. When the obvious wrong numbers are not fixed with
people and processes it will be a dream to sanitize the future numbers.

Future analysis has become luxury of these parasites without slightest
assumption of responsibilities to address the present."

Signed — thoughts matter not name


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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Motive - ation

from Freedom, Inc.:

A psychologist found himself disturbed by a group of kids that one day had come to play football under his window, making a lot of noise. So he went out and said: “You guys are really great. I enjoy watching you so much that every time you come to play here I will give you one dollar each.” And he gave a dollar to each kid. The next day, when the kids were again enthusiastically playing football, he came out and said: “I really enjoy watching you but the thing is that I have no bills, just coins today. I can give you two quarters each.” The kids were not delighted with this pay cut, but took the money and continued to play. The story continues until after two days, the psychologist offered them just a penny each, which one of them proudly refused and said: “We are not going to play here for a damn penny.” And the kids never came back, much to the satisfaction of the psychologist.

Many psychologists think that this “experiment” is apocryphal, but it continues to circulate because it reflects what they know from hundreds of real experiments: If you take people who are deeply engaged in something because they enjoy it and then you offer them tangible rewards for doing it, a shift happens. Mentally, people establish a causal link between these rewards and the activity—something psychologists call a perceived locus of causality—and this link will undermine the initial, intrinsic cause they had for the activity, such as considering it enjoyable or important.


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Some Thoughts on New Year


The object of a New Year is not that we should have a new year.
It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose; new feet,
a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes.
Unless a particular man made New Year resolutions,
he would make no resolutions. Unless a man starts afresh
about things, he will certainly do nothing effective.

~ G.K. Chesterton


We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room,
drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched.
Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through
the rooms of our lives... not looking for flaws, but for potential.

~Ellen Goodman


And fiinally...
People are so worried about what they eat
between Christmas and the New Year,
but they really should be worried about
what they eat
between the New Year
and Christmas.
~ Author Unknown
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Sunday, December 06, 2009

RIP Jim Rohn.

Another life lived well.

Thanks for everything.


"Let others lead small lives, but not you.
Let others argue over small things, but not you.
Let others cry over small hurts, but not you.
Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you."

~Jim Rohn


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Tuesday, December 01, 2009

New Liberal Front Bench Selected?


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Friday, October 09, 2009

On Attachment To "Stuff"...

"It's difficult for people
to get rid of junk.
They get attached to things
and let them define who they are.
If there's one thing I've learned
in this business, it's that
you are what you can't get rid of."

~ Brian Scudamore,

Founder/CEO 1800-Got-Junk


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Wednesday, October 07, 2009

On The Matter Of Reorganizing

"We trained hard, but it seemed that every time we were
beginning to form up in teams we would be reorganized.

I was to learn later in life that we tend to meet any new situation
by reorganizing. And a wonderful method it can be for creating
the illusion of progress whilst producing confusion, inefficiency
and demoralization."

–Gaius Petronius, AD 66


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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Values & Alignment

"As long as we operate within this old paradigm, we are separated from our heart and values and feel powerless.

We cannot suspend our values during the workday and think we will have them back when we get home.
We're all connected.

There is a spiritual dimension to business just as there is to individuals."

~Ben & Jerry [The Ice Cream Guys] 
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Dust Storm :Life In Sepia

Spring doesn't usually look like this.  This is 10am. Perfect weather for filming on the end of the world.


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Monday, September 21, 2009

Garden Wakes In Spring



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Thursday, September 17, 2009

Target Practice!

Know What It Is You're Aiming For To Reach Your Goals.


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Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Wash Your Rice Bowl... On.Being Here, Now.

Planning is to be commended.

When you plan... plan.

When you do... Do.




Wash Your Rice Bowl...

A monk told Joshu, "I have just entered the monastery. Please teach me."

Joshu asked, "Have you eaten your rice porridge?

The monk replied, "I have eaten."

Joshu said, "Then you had better wash your bowl."

At that moment the monk was enlightened.

 

Click on the link below for the analysis of what it means.

Wash Your Bowl. A Koan.


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Monday, September 14, 2009

Time

Time is that inexplicable raw material of everything. With it all is possible. Without it, nothing. The supply of time is truly a daily miracle - an affair genuinely astonishing when one examines it.

You wake up in the morning, and lo! Your purse is magically filled with twenty-four hours of the un-manufactured tissue of the universe of your life.  It is yours. It is the most precious of possessions no-one can take it from you. It is unstealable. And no-one receives either more or less than you receive.

In the realm of time, there is no aristocracy of intellect. Genius is never rewarded by even an extra hour a day. And there is no punishment. Waste your infinitely precious commodity as much as you will and the supply will never be withheld from you. 

Moreover, you cannot draw on the future. Impossible to get into debt! You can only waste the passing moment. You cannot waste tomorrow; it is kept for you.  

I have said the affair is a miracle, is it not? You have this twenty-four hours of daily time to live. Out of it you want to spin health, pleasure, money, contentment, respect and the evolution of your immortal soul. 

Its right use, its most effective use is a matter of the highest urgency and of the most thrilling actuality. All depends on that. Your happiness the elusive prize that you are all clutching for, my friend depends on that. 

If one cannot arrange that an income of twenty-four hours shall exactly cover all proper items of expenditure, one does muddle one's whole life indefinitely. 

We shall never have any more time. We have, and have always had, all the time there is.  

~ Arnold Bennet


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